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How to Train Your Dog to Sleep in a Certain Room

How to Train Your Dog to Sleep in a Certain Room
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Introduction

You’ve always loved cuddling up with your dog when you sleep at night. You wanted the company and he gladly obliged. Now you have a new partner though, and a dog sleeping between you isn’t quite what your partner envisaged on moving in. Your dog is also quite defensive and protective about who sleeps in his bedroom, so you know it’s time to make a change. He’s not a puppy anymore either, so maybe some independence will do him good.

Training him to sleep in a certain room is good for both of you. He needs to be able to survive without you, at day and at night. It will make leaving him in kennels or at a friend's when you go on vacation easier, too.

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Defining Tasks

The training itself isn’t always a walk in the park. It depends largely on how long your dog has been used to sleeping wherever he likes. If he’s mature and you’re breaking a 10-year-old habit, then it may take a few weeks to get him truly settled into his new bedroom. If he’s just a puppy and new to having sleeping freedom, then taking it away could take just several days or a week. The biggest struggle comes with making his new sleeping area a comfy and desirable bedroom for him. Also, if you’ve spent years with him sleeping in your bed, then letting go of your cuddle buddy may prove challenging for you as well.

Succeed with this training and you’ll have a dog you can control and who won’t cause you any trouble at night time. 

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Getting Started

Before you start your new training regime you’ll need a few things. You’ll need a comfy bed and toys, plus treats to make your dog's new sleeping area nice and appealing. You’ll also need to set aside a few minutes each day for getting him familiar and excited for his new bedroom.

You’ll have to find all your patience and resilience to stick with the training campaign, so bring the right attitude. Once you’ve collected all of that, you can get to work!

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The ‘Bed’ Method

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Stand by his bed

Be right next to the bed in the room you want your dog to sleep in and then call him over. Make sure you’ve got a pocket full of treats with you.

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‘Bed’

Issue the verbal command, then point at his bed and encourage him to head there. Once your dog has looked at you puzzled for a while, he’ll finally clock on and take a step onto the bed. As soon as he does that, give him a treat and shower him with praise.

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Increase the distance

Repeat this again and again over the next few days. As you practice, slowly increase the distance you are from the bed when you send him there. The trick is to increase the distance gradually. Keep practicing until you can send your pooch to his bed when you aren’t even in the room. At this point, you can cut out the treats, he’ll no longer need them to follow your command.

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Apply it at night

When the evening comes, send him to his new room/bed with the command. Be firm and clear so he knows you mean business. If he trots back out, send him straight back. If he comes into your room or another room at night again, give the command in a louder, clearer voice. You will need to be persistent. It will take him several days to a week before he finally realizes that he needs to stay in that room all night.

The Routine Method

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Follow a timeline

Each evening, try and be consistent. Give your dog his food, take him to go potty, and then put him to bed at the same time. It should never be a surprise when you want him to go to bed. Routine brings with it comfort, so take him to his new room at the same time each evening.

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Leave a treat on the bed

An easy way to get him to go in there in the first place is to put a treat on his bed. Simply having something in there to look forward to will encourage him to head in there each evening.

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Say ‘good night’

Spend a couple of minutes gently playing with him and stroking him. Get him comfortable and happy, then say good night and leave him. It’s important you follow this routine each day and then he won’t be surprised when you leave.

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Go and get him in the morning

Having a routine in the morning is also important. If he’s not already up, go and say 'good morning' and stroke him. Doing this in the morning and evening will teach him that going to bed and where he goes to bed is on your terms. It will also comfort him to know you’ll be there when he goes to sleep and you’ll still be there first thing in the morning.

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Be consistent

If you slip up every couple of evenings your dog won’t stick to his new room. You need to stick to your routine every evening or the process will take considerably longer. But be patient, be rigorous, and it will pay off.

The Gentle Cold Shoulder Method

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Make the new room all his

If you want your dog to sleep somewhere else, you need to make it feel like his own. Play with him there in the day. Allow him to have some space in there that is totally his. It will then start to feel like his territory, a safe place where he can escape to.

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Add some home comforts

To start with, you may want to put some old clothes of yours into his new room and bed. The smell of you will help put him at ease. It will also help to leave his toys in there. All of this will make him feel more comfortable.

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Leave the door open wide

To start with, you need to keep the door open so he can escape if he wants. This may not make sense now, but the idea is you show your dog gradually that he’s not missing out on anything. It also stops you cutting all ties in one go, which won’t be easy for him.

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Gradually close the door

Each night, close the door a little bit more, until it is only just ajar and then finally completely shut it. This will allow your dog to slowly get used to not having his own freedom anymore.

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Put him to bed

Each night, take him to his new room and slowly stroke him for a few minutes until he gets sleepy. Think of it like taking a child to bed at night and reading them a bed time story. Keep doing this and all of the above steps until he’s comfortable in there. Then you can slowly stop taking him to bed each night.

Written by James Barra

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Published: 10/24/2017, edited: 07/12/2023

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Simba

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toy poodle

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11 Weeks

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Hi there. So I don’t want to crate train can’t bring myself to do this. We have had this bundle of joy for nearly 4 weeks now. We got a pen and tried everything but he was so distressed it didn’t work. I have a two storey home with the living area downstairs. I have an area setup for him with his bed which is where we want him to sleep. Loves his bed and goes to it on command at night. During the day is challenging. But he is very attached to me. So I’m currently sleeping on the lounge where he can see me. How do I gradually train him to be left alone sleeping at night ?

Sept. 2, 2021

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Hello Maha, I would have pup spend time in the pen with you out of the room during the day, at first for short periods of time, increasing the amount of time alone gradually. Check out the Surprise method from the article I have linked below. That method outlines how to get a dog used to a crate gradually, but you can use the same steps for a bed or any confined area. At this age pup does need to be confined somewhere at night or pup isn't safe because of the teething pup will be going through and the danger of ingesting something or chewing through danger things like wires, plus potty training won't progress if pup has too much freedom at night. Know that it's normal for puppies to cry when getting used to being left alone. Almost every puppy does it, and almost every puppy can get to the point where they are okay with it with time and practice. Surprise method: https://wagwalking.com/training/like-a-crate Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden

Sept. 2, 2021

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I would like to teach Izzy to sleep in a separate room. She suffers a little bit from separation anxiety and so every time I put her in the other room in her kennel she cries.

July 27, 2021

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Hello Priscilla, I would start by practicing the Surprise method from the article I have linked below with pup in that room alone during the day for shorter periods. https://wagwalking.com/training/like-a-crate When pup cries in the other room, I would ignore the crying if pup is safe, healthy, and it's been less than 8 hours since pup last went potty so you know it's not a potty need. I would do this for at least two weeks consistently. If pup won't give you periods of quietness that you can reward during the day, or isn't improving at night, or you can't allow pup to cry at night because it's waking people or bothering neighbors, then I would add in an interrupter to the Surprise method training, correcting the barking also. To do this, first, work on teaching the Quiet command during the day using the Quiet method from the article linked below. https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-shih-tzu-puppy-to-not-bark Second, during the day practice the Surprise method from the article linked below. Whenever pup stays quiet in the crate for 5 minutes, sprinkle some treats into the crate without opening it, then leave the room again. As she improves, only give the treats every 10 minutes, then 15 minutes, 20 minutes, 30 minutes, 45 minutes, 1 hour, 1.5 hour, 2, hour, 3 hour. Practice crating her during the day for 1-3 hours each day that you can. Whenever she cries in the crate, tell her "Quiet". If she gets quiet - Great! Sprinkle treats in after five minutes if she stays quiet. If she continues barking or stops and starts again, spray a quick puff of air from a pet convincer at her side through the crate while calmly saying "Ah Ah", then leave again. Only use unscented air canisters, DON'T use citronella! And avoid spraying in the face. surprise method: https://wagwalking.com/training/like-a-crate Repeat the rewards when quiet and the corrections whenever she cries. When she cries at night before it has been 8 hours, tell her Quiet, and correct with the pet convincer if she doesn't become quiet and stay quiet. If she is currently sleeping fine in your room, you can either move pup into the other room at night right away, while you are also doing the daytime practice, or practice during the day, then move pup at night once days are going well with pup alone in there for practice. Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden

July 27, 2021


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