We never see the woman-dog bond story. When we think about dogs and their instincts to survive and to be social, what we do know is that dogs like to eat, they like positive affection and they are really great friends to men and women. While some dogs may tell the difference between men and women, it may be that the human gender does not really matter to a dog.
Signs a Dog can Tell Human Gender
This is all true for your pet pooch as well. They may not have words to speak but they can tell you so much by their behavior and their body signals. It's important to be a good observer of your dog's signals, the context in which the dog is reacting, and the reactions of those in the vicinity to get a good read on what's on your dog's mind.
Dogs have many ways of showing their preferences. Whether male or female, dog or human, the dog is going to greet with a good sniff, typically in the crotch or the behind area - where the smells are strongest and most discerning of mating potential.
Once the snuffling is over, you can get a feel for your dog's dominance or submission by the dog's body signals. The dominant dog will stand alert, with ears forward, nudging at the more submissive other. The submissive dog will actually go low to the ground, cower, and roll over, exposing the stomach.
The submissive dog will pull the ears back and look to the side. The tail will be tucked, which is another sign of intimidation. It's best to let them get their sniffing and social testing in place and not interrupt the greeting rituals of dogs with one another.
When it comes to your relationship with your dog, whether you are a male or female, as long as you have a positive relationship, there are all kinds of ways that your dog will show you love. Your dog will cry hysterically and run in circles with joy when you come through the door. Doggy kisses will consist of licks to your face.
Your aroma is so pleasing that your dog may just go steal your socks and undies to have your scent near even when you are away. Your dog may smile at you, invite you to play with a play bow, and romp with you outside. Dogs who love their family members will follow them around and snuggle up as much as possible.
Your dog will try to please you and become very confused if you are in a bad mood. That loving mutt can even tell when you are sad or not feeling well and will stay by your side until you are feeling better. Whether you are a man or woman, boy or girl, when you have a positive and loving relationship with a dog, you have a truly loyal companion.
- Tail tucking
- Reacting differently to men and women
- Responding to masculine or feminine walks
The History of Dogs Determining Human Genders
These characteristics give us pause to consider that the evolution from wolf to dog, in relation to man, was one born out of these proclivities. When it comes to gender preferences in the evolution of human and canine, well, much of the history is written by men, so let's just leave it at that.
Dogs relate equally well to women and men when they have been properly socialized as pups. The alpha in the human family of the pet dog may be a male or female. What is important is that the human establishes leadership with the dog, through patience and positive interaction, providing the resources that the dog needs to be healthy and safe.
As long as the relationship is strong and the dog's needs are being met, human gender really does not matter. The dog is an equal opportunity pet.
The Science of Dogs Telling Human Gender
Scientists have actually tested if dogs can tell the difference between men and women. In one study, the researchers used visual and auditory cues to test dog gender discrimination skills. The dogs were presented with a man and a woman who each stood by a speaker. The sound of a male voice and a female voice were played through the speakers.
Sometimes the voice matched the gender of the person. Sometimes the voice did not match the gender of the person. The scientists took note of the amount of time the dogs looked at the person when the voice matched the gender. What the study revealed is that the ability to tell gender is dependent on the dog's experience with humans of different genders.
Dogs who had one master could not really tell when the voices did and did not match the gender of the human. Dogs living in households with three or more people were more discerning of the sexes. It is all a matter of social exposure and opportunity. What really counts is the positive relationship you build with your pet, no matter what your gender, age, or culture. It's all about the love in your home.
Training Your Dog to do Well with All People
Whatever your circumstances, the new person in your life is bringing a change to your household. There are things you can do to help your dog have a smooth adjustment to the newcomer, whether male or female.
1. Designate the dog's space. It can be a crate, a dog bed, or any other spot in the house that belongs to your dog. Some people will give the dog their own area, like a laundry room. Make sure your dog has a place of their own.
2. Prepare the new person on what to do to greet the dog. The person will need to hold still to allow the dog to sniff. Your responsibility is to make sure the dog and the new person are both comfortable and safe. If your dog is inclined to jump or is dominant in personality, you may want to have the dog on a loose leash. Model staying calm for the new person and the dog. Allow the dog to sniff and then bring the dog to his or her safe space.
3. Invite the new person to give the dog a treat. It may be that you tell the dog to "Sit" and the new person gives the treat to the dog. Do not have the new person feed the treat with the hand. Place the treat in a dish that is offered.
4. Plan some fun activities that you and the new person can do with the dog. Take the dog for a walk together. Go outside to play together.
5. Stay calm, positive, and patient as your dog gets used to having a new member of the pack.
6. If your dog seems aggressive toward the newcomer, take this seriously. Do not make excuses for your dog's behavior. Make sure that all members of the household are safe and seek professional help with aggressive behaviors.
How to Help Your Dog to be Receptive:
Your leadership is the best love you can show your dog.
Keep your dog healthy with vaccines and regular check-ups.
Make sure your dog gets exercise every day.
Feed your dog a balanced dog diet (not table scraps).
Teach your dog obedience to keep your dog safe and confident.
Be positive with treats, praise, and pets.
Respond to your dog's needs for security by providing a safe space, like a crate or dog bed.