Aggression Toward Familiar People in Dogs
Written By hannah hollinger
Published: 04/15/2016Updated: 11/19/2021
Veterinary reviewed by Dr. Linda Simon, MVB MRCVS
Aggression Toward Familiar People in Dogs - Symptoms, Causes, Diagnosis, Treatment, Recovery, Management, Cost
What is Aggression Toward Familiar People?
Aggression in dogs toward familiar people is a frustrating situation that dog owners may face during the ownership of their companion. Growling, barking, biting, snarling, lunging, or any type of aggressive behavior can be caused by a variety of reasons. Many people view the term “aggression” in different ways; some feel that if a dog bites a familiar person it is considered aggression, while others may feel that a growl or snarl to a familiar person is a signal for aggression. What is important to understand is that if a dog has been a member of your family for a period of time and has had time to “bond” with everyone, it is important to be mindful of any behavioral changes. If your companion has never snarled or growled before, and all of a sudden begins to do that (without being threatened or provoked) then it may be time to visit the veterinarian.
Aggression in dogs toward familiar people occurs when a dog, well known to its family or family friends, becomes aggressive towards them, causing emotional harm or physical harm to his loved ones.
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Symptoms of Aggression Toward Familiar People in Dogs
Aggression is on such a wide spectrum of behaviors, and that is why it is so important to keep a documentation of any regular “times” or “triggers” that are leading to any negative change in behavior of the dog. Symptoms can include:
  • Snarling
  • Lip licking
  • Biting
  • Barking
  • Growling
  • Lunging
  • Having a tense or stressed demeanor
  • Inability to relax in certain situations
  • Being unhappy or seemingly irritated
  • Moodiness
  • Averting their gaze
  • Restlessness
  • Anxiety
Types
There are many types of aggression in dogs and it can occur in many different situations. Types include: 
  • Dominance aggression
  • Aggression related to an incident
  • Competitive aggression
  • Conflict aggression
  • Maternal aggression
  • Anxiety induced aggression
  • Pain related aggression
Causes of Aggression Toward Familiar People in Dogs
Aggression can occur more often in certain breeds if not handled properly. There are breeds that are known or considered to be more aggressive than others, and this is still widely debated. Studies do show that this is the case at times. Causes of aggressiveness toward familiar people can include:
  • Inconsistent training
  • Hectic environment
  • Mishandling of the dog
  • Improper and inappropriate discipline of the dog
  • Neglect
  • Genetics
  • Underlying medical conditions
Diagnosis of Aggression Toward Familiar People in Dogs
If your dog has suddenly or gradually over time become aggressive toward you, other family members, or friends, it is imperative to make an appointment with your veterinarian before the symptoms progress. The veterinarian will ask for a detailed history of the dog, including his home environment, habits, routines, discipline, training, and any other questions he feels is necessary to properly diagnose the underlying condition, if any.
The veterinarian will perform a complete examination which may include medical testing, such as blood work, a urinalysis and other tests. It is very important to tell your veterinarian of any changes in diet, or if the dog is showing any symptoms of illness. The medical professional will check for anxiety issues or dominance issues by asking you specific questions pertaining to these disorders.
Treatment of Aggression Toward Familiar People in Dogs
With a diagnosis of aggression, the veterinarian will usually recommend a tailored program so it doesn’t become worse. Treatment may include:
Behavioral Therapy
This will often be the main form of treatment, and the veterinarian will usually recommend a canine behaviourist to help your dog and your family. Behavioral therapy may include modification of the dog’s behavior, desensitization, eliminating triggers, training and much more. The behavioral therapist must get to know your dog and may come into the home to help you, and will even teach you strategies to help your dog. This may take time, and things may have to be eliminated from the dog’s life in order to decrease his aggression, but will be worth it in the end.
Medication
If your dog is suffering from anxiety, the veterinarian may choose to prescribe medication. This is questionable and debated, though, because what is crucial in dog aggression is to address the underlying issue. If the dog has an illness that has caused him to suddenly become aggressive the veterinarian will prescribe the appropriate medication if needed e.g. pain relief and anti-inflammatories for joint disease.
Lifestyle Change
Making sure that your home environment is calm and predictable may be a recommendation by the veterinarian or behavioral therapist. If you do not have a routine with your dog, and his day-to-day living is very unpredictable, a change will need to be made. Consistent and proper routine management is one step to helping dog aggression.
Diet
There are times when a low-protein and high-tryptophan diet may help in conjunction with therapies and any medication.
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Recovery of Aggression Toward Familiar People in Dogs
Recovery and management depends on the severity of the aggression. Dogs can be cured of this, but it does take much dedication and time from you, the loving and patient owner. Many dogs who display aggression towards familiar people are rehomed or surrendered to an animal shelter.  If a dog has attacked a person, causing suffering and severe injury, they may be euthanized. This is why it is crucial to get the dog’s aggressiveness under control before it is too late. The dog’s chances of recovery are much higher if he is taken to the veterinarian and started on therapy early on.
Recovery takes time, perhaps years, and over this time the methods learned must be followed. Follow-up visits with the veterinarian and behavioral therapist (if the therapy has ended) are necessary to be sure the dog is on the path to recovery. There is no “cure” for dog aggression; however, there are ways to drastically minimize any recurrences. It takes dedication and persistence from the whole family in order to help the dog with this condition.
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Aggression Toward Familiar People Questions and Advice from Veterinary Professionals
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My pet has the following symptoms:
Barking , Lunging , Biting , Jump
I have a Labrador mixed with a blue nose pit bull he’s about 9 months and I’ve had him since he was was about 2 and just a few days ago he’s all of a sudden become aggressive. If I try to discipline for certain things he begans barking , he lowers his body and begans barking and jumping lunging at my feet and up top. He also does the same thing to my twin brother, when he gets home he’s fine but after awhile as soon as he sees him he runs towards him and begans to lay in attack position, and starts barking , and lunging. My brother did have tendency to be mean when he was young, and everything was fine until my dog was walking out the room and my brother decided to slightly kick his behind as he was walking out and that started it all , does his agression stem from that ?
Sept. 12, 2018
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My pet has the following symptoms:
Aggression
My dog recently nipped two of my family members. Both times they we're play fighting however we often play fight and he's never shown aggression to it before. Both times I wasn't downstairs with them. I was wondering if the cause could be caused by two factors. First my sister just moved in with me and brought her two dogs. One is a male the other female but they are both neutered. The other is that my female dog went into heat around the same time. Neither of my dogs are neutered. I was wondering if you think either of those may be the issue.
Aug. 9, 2018
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Seems like there is a lot going on around Jax including new housemates (human and canine), dog on heat etc… which is probably causing Jax some stress which may result in him acting out. You should think about going over some training with him and punishing behaviour which is not desirable. Have a look over the training guides below and try to give positive reinforcement when Jax is well behaved. Regards Dr Callum Turner DVM https://wagwalking.com/training/stop-attacking https://wagwalking.com/training/accept-another-dog
Aug. 10, 2018
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Max
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My pet has the following symptoms:
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I have an Eight year old GSD. During the week I am away at work and he is with my wife and my mom (88 years old with moderate dementia). Max has been with my mom since he was 1 year old. Within the last couple weeks, my wife has woken up in the morning to Max barking at my mom. My wife hears my mom telling Max to come eat with a raised (not yelling) voiced. Yesterday, my mom told my wife that Max snapped at her. My wife has found my mom holding his dish with food while trying to get him in the kitchen to eat when he doesn’t want to eat. My mom does not remember doing this when I speak to her. Could my mother with her dementia be inadvertently teasing our GSD? My mom has been feeding Max for the last 4 years after dad passed away and this is completely new. During the day, Max will come up to my mom to put his head in her lap to have his ear or head scratched or he will usually stay with my mom in her room after the caregiver has left for the day until my wife comes home. Any suggestions or actions we need to take immediately would be appreciated. Thank you
Aug. 4, 2018
Answered by Dr. Michele K. DVM
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I think that you need to hire a trainer to evaluate Max, as the possibility for injury to your mom exists. The two of them should not be left unattended. If you don't know a trainer, your veterinarian will be able to refer you to someone. I hope that all goes well for both of them.
Aug. 4, 2018
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Leia
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My pet has the following symptoms:
Growling
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My dog is 8 years old. I got her from a foster home. She's mixed - half Yorkie Terrier, quarter pug, and quarter beagle (she's built like a pug without the flat face. Had a pug from age 6-21, he was my baby from day one, so I have some idea of how pugs can get). Anyway, she doesn't get along with other dogs except one (oh, I should mention I live in an apt). There's only 3 people she doesn't like and there's good reasons for it. She is otherwise considered a sweet dog who loves attention from humans. Tonight she was happy to see someone but then started growling for no apparent reason. She was happy then growling, in a second. She did this a couple of weeks ago but I thought it was probably because the person was sitting next to one of the people she doesn't like, (she's actually more scared of the person). But then it happened tonight. I was at the vet with her a week ago and said she does seem crabbier recently and the vet felt some stiffness in her back legs, so she prescribed medication. I don't think she was suddenly growing because she was in pain. When we got up from the bench to go on a walk she was giddy and jumping up and down, happy as can be. I'm Bipolar and Leia, that's her name, seems to have quickly picked up when I'm manic or depressed. When I'm manic she gets the same level of energy as me and, like me, can become unpredictable. (She's helped me a lot with my mental health). When I've been manic in the past she never growled at people so suddenly. She literally was so happy to see this person but for some reason started to growl with her tail between her legs. I'm really trying to figure out what happened that she would just switch like that. When the person left I was still sitting on the bench and noticed she was looking straight ahead at something but she might've been pouting because I scolded her. Any possible explanation? I don't think it has anything to do with her back legs because once we got up she was extremely happy and giddy, running and jumping.
July 30, 2018
Answered by Dr. Michele K. DVM
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I do think that as dogs get older, they can experience pain that affects their lives, and I think that pain medication is a good place to start. As dogs age, they can also change personalities a little, and become generally more grumpy. If the pain medication does not help dramatically, it may be a good idea to have her work with a trainer to see if there are triggers that you may be able to notice ahead of time.
July 30, 2018
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Maltipoo
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Sushi
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My pet has the following symptoms:
Biting
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Agression
Our new little baby Maltipoo is about 4.5 months old. He was being re-homed by someone and we're not sure of his exact history. He's always been a very mouthy / growly / biting and nipping puppy, but lately his aggression has escalated. We had a very rough incident at the vet, where he freaked out and wouldn't let anyone touch him. If anyone tried to pick him up he would loudly snarl and try to bite. Since that day, he will often get this way and go into "attack" mode snarling and trying to bite us if we pick him up or clean him gently with a puppy wipe. Basically anything he doesn't like, he now goes into this mode of "attack" and it's very scary. I know we need to seek professional behavioral training - but is there any other specific advise you can give? Thanks a lot!
July 23, 2018
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There is no simple one fits all solution in these cases, we have some training guides which I’ve linked below for you to go through to see if you can find any help there; also near the bottom of each guide there is a section where you can ask a certified dog trainer a question for any follow up. Regards Dr Callum Turner DVM https://wagwalking.com/training/stop-attacking https://wagwalking.com/training/stop-being-fearful https://wagwalking.com/training/not-fear-bite https://wagwalking.com/training/not-fear-bite-1
July 24, 2018
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Marley
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My pet has the following symptoms:
Diarrhea
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I bought a very expensive American Akita a couple of years back from a reputable breeder. He was the runt of the litter and the last remaining; the breeder said no one wanted him and it’d been several months since his siblings found homes. The breeder named him Marley because his destructive behavior was like the dog from “Marley and Me”. I’ve had many dogs before and I’m good at training them so I arrogantly thought I could handle him. The training went well and all seemed well until a month ago. My neighbors recently took on two aggressive dogs, and Marley befriended them. My only guess is that their behavior has influenced Marley, although I know that’s selfish of me to say. Since that time he has began attempting to dig into the neighbors’ yard. He has also stopped listening to all commands. I just took him on a small road trip and it was the road trip from hell. He started snapping at me any time I reached for his collar to lead him into his kennel or into the hotel room because he refused to enter either, which is also unusual for him. He also managed to slip his collar and it took me hours driving around an unknown city to find him. When we returned home I hoped he was back to normal but he bit me last night. He has also developed explosive diarrhea, so instead of letting him out 5 times a day I’ve upped it to about 10 times a day. Last night, he decided he wasn’t going outside for his final nightly potty break. Even when I raised my voice, which usually causes his stubbornness to cease, he remained defiant. When I reached for his collar to lead him out, that’s when he bit me. I snatched my hand away in time to avoid a full bite, but one of his canines got me good and drew a fair amount of blood. I’m now in a position where I’ve read that I could be sued if I rehome an aggressive dog and he bites someone else. I just got my youngest son for the summer, and I now feel unsafe allowing Marley inside my house at all, and it’s hot outside. The mother of my children would kill me if I allowed a dog I knew was aggressive to attack our son. I’ve read that in these cases owners have the right to humanely put the dog down, but I can’t bring myself to do it. My hands seem to be tied. If he gets into the neighbors’ yard and bites them, I’ll be ruined. If I rehome him and he bites someone, I’ll be ruined. He’s also been destroying the interior of my home over the past month. It’s like I don’t even know him anymore. I don’t even know why I’m writing this as a course of action can’t be suggested without the person suggesting that course possibly becoming entangled in whatever Marley does next. It seems I’m all out of options. I’ve already spent an insane amount of money spoiling and caring for him and I don’t have money to dedicate to additional training and at this point I’m not even sure it’d do any good. I guess I’m hoping someone can tell me it’s okay to put a very large and suddenly aggressive dog down. He’s nearly 200 pounds, and an aggressive dog of that size is quite intimidating, even for me as a large man who is a combat veteran. It’s gotten to the point where when I’m dealing with him I make sure a knife is in my pocket in case he gets ahold of me. He’s been my only companion since I left the service; but as a veteran his behavior has now become detrimental to my own peace and healing. Even when he’s been inside the house over the past month, he just ominously stares at me non stopped like he can’t wait to get his paws on me. It’s a bit much for me. Marley and I are at an impasse, and I don’t know what to do. I just know it’s no longer feasible to allow him inside and I no longer feel any comfort being in his presence. I’m even nervous about feeding and watering him; I just open the back door and quickly slide his bowls out. Since he bit me he’s even been urinating on the back door, which he’s never done. He usually urinates as far away from the house as he can. It’s just all so strange and I’ve never seen this kind of behavior in any dog I’ve owned. What’s a person to do when you feel your dog may attack you for asking him to go outside?
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