How to Train Your Dog to Be Patient
How to Train Your Dog to Be Patient
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Time icon3-6 Weeks
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Introduction

Dogs can be some of the most impatient beings on the planet. When you ask if they want to go for a ride, they are practically in the car before you can even turn to find your car keys. If you have food that you are preparing for yourself or for them, they are literally drooling before you can even get the package open. 

If your dog is not patient, he could become obnoxious and dangerous. Dogs who are impatient tend to jump all over their owners because they can't wait and are so excited they don't know how to control it. Some dogs aren't patient enough to wait for food and will bite the hand that feeds them. Teach your dog to be patient and to wait so he not only has good manners, but is also a little calmer until he gets what he wants.

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Defining Tasks

Training your dog to be patient can be as simple as training your dog to wait. There will be different scenarios when you do need your dog to be patient, whether it's opening the door for him to go outside without ruining the screen, the curtains, or your pants or waiting for food without jumping on you or the counter or stealing food from your hand before you're ready to give it to him. Teach your dog to be patient with the things he's most excited about. This could include activities, tasks, and food. Do not give in to your dog and allow him to have the things or activities he wants until he is patient. Giving in will only teach him that behaving obnoxiously will get him what he wants. 

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Getting Started

To train patience with your dog, you will need lots of tasty treats and actions or activities your dog will be eager to do. If your dog is one to jump all over the screen door before you can get to the door to open it, then that is the place where you need to start your training. If your dog often goes for car rides and is so excited that he's jumping all over the car, that's a great place to train as well. Start training your dog to be patient when it comes to food and then work on activities.

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The 'Watch Me' Method

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Attention

Take a walk together and get your dog’s attention by saying his name.

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Stand still

Once you have his attention, stop walking and don’t move. Wait until your dog stops and stands or sits with you calmly.

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Treat

Hold up a treat to your face close to your nose or eyes so your dog looks at your face. Say the command "watch me."

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Reward

Once your dog looks at you and gives you his attention, give him verbal praise and the treat as a reward.

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Repeat

Repeat these steps in various situations, practicing the ‘watch me’ command. When your dog stops and gives you his attention, give him a treat.

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Practice patience

Begin to have your dog practice patience by using the ‘watch me’ command any time he is too excited or impatient. This command gives pause to the event taking place and forces your dog to wait patiently until you are ready.

The 'Wait' Method

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Start on-leash

Put your dog on a leash and take a short walk together. You can do this in your home or in your yard. This doesn’t need to be a long walk.

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Stop

After taking a few steps, stop and face your dog.

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Hand signal

Hold your palm out toward your dog and say the command "wait."

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Stop dog

Block the dog’s path while keeping your hand up, palm facing out toward the dog.

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Dog stops

Once your dog stops walking, give him a treat.

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Walk more

Walk a bit more with your dog and continue to stop and ask him to wait. When he stops with you, give him a treat.

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Practice

Continue to practice the 'wait' command while on walks together. Begin to use the command more in everyday situations such as when he wants to eat, get in the car, or go outside to keep him from being too excited and reacting in an obnoxious manner.

The Bowl of Treats Method

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Bowl

Get your dog’s food bowl and place some high-value treats in it, but do not set it down right away.

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Start to Lower

Lower the bowl in an effort to set it in place. Expect your dog to react and rush to the bowl.

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Negative behavior

If your dog rushes the bowl or shows impatience, pull the bowl back up and take a step away from your dog.

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Be patient

Tell your dog to 'be patient' and try to set the bowl down again.

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Repeat

Repeat the steps above until your dog is patient and allows you to set the bowl down without rushing you or the bowl. This will take lots of practice and encouragement to be patient.

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Reward

Once your dog waits patiently for you to set the bowl in place, let him eat the treats from the bowl.

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Practice

Keep practicing the ‘be patient’ key phrase and use these steps for other times your dog is impatient.

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Manners

Expect your dog to be patient any time he is overly anxious and excited for something he wants. For instance, if he is used to jumping on the door when he wants to go outside, ask him to be patient and take a step back away from the door ,waiting for him to back up and wait patiently for you to open the door. Just be careful making a house training puppy wait to go outside.

Written by Stephanie Plummer

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Published: 12/15/2017, edited: 01/08/2021

Training Questions and Answers

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Bolt
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Russian Spaniel
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One Year
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I'm trying to train my dog patience. We are starting in our yard, because walking with him anywhere else is awful. He's pulling, biting the leash when he can't get anywhere. I just want to ask if it's okay that he's whining and biting the leash when i stop and try to get his attention. When he stops whining and looks at me i give him a treat. Is this good training for him to learn to be patient?

Dec. 24, 2023

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Molly
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Airedale Terrier
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Nine Years
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I have an Australian shepherd catahoula mix and I like to take her hunting but I’m trying to get her to be patient and she gets excited. Not sure how to fix that

Aug. 20, 2023

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Caitlin Crittenden - Dog Trainer

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Hello, In exactly which types of situations are you wanting to teach her to be patient? Are you shooting an animal and she is breaking a stay to chase after it ahead of your gun? Please include more details and scenarios and I would be happy to help answer your question more thoroughly. If she doesn't know a solid Stand-Stay, Sit-Stay, and Down-Stay, as well as Heel, I would start with those. You can also teach a Wait command, but each of these commands will need to be proofed after they are taught using positive reinforcement with rewards. Good ways to proof are the Premack principle, sometimes working level remote collar training, and using a long training leash in your sessions. Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden

Aug. 25, 2023

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Brady
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Texas Heeler
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Two Years
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He wants to go where he wants to. When I’m ready to go he won’t move I have to literally go behind and push him forward. It’s so frustrating. His sister same breed sane parents but different litter is just the opposite. Then I think he’s always sad because he’s just not as enthusiastic as his sister. She wants to play catch he wants to look for cat poop. lol it’s nuts.

July 22, 2023

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Hello, First, if the walks where he is putting on the brakes are happening on sidewalks or roads, then touch the ground and be sure that he isn't being asked to walk somewhere that's too hot and burning his paw paws. Some dogs have more sensitive paw pads and he might have been burned in the past during the summer and has learned to avoid areas like asphalt - and would then put on the breaks during certain crossings and areas. Second, what type of harness or collar are you using to walk him? I would try a front clip harness or possibly have a trainer evaluate him for a correctly fitted prong collar, trying the front clip harness first. A back clip harness will encourage pulling against you, a choke chain can damage his trachea and doesn't tend to be effective when used by most people, and certain no pull devices can chafe under the armpits; make sure he isn't resisting movement due to any of those reasons. A front clip harness gives you more control. Used correctly and without too much force, the prong collar could enforce your commands when he really is simply avoiding following you because he prefers to do something else (make sure that's the case though and there isn't something more going on); however, as with any device, it needs to be paired with something rewarding when he does obey, and used how it's designed. It's extremely important that you carry kibble or tiny treats that he likes in a baggie or or treat pouch hidden on your person, so you can give enthusiastic praise and reward for continuing to walk with you. Most of all, practice building your relationship with him at times when you aren't as set on getting to a destination. Intentionally practice the Turns method or Treat Luring method from the article I have linked below. Don't have a goal of getting anywhere - the point of this training is to help him learn to follow and pay attention to you better. Dogs tend to respect firm but calm best. If you get overly frustrated (which of course is hard not to do in life) or aren't consistent that can undermine your efforts. Keep your attitude confident, calm, and upbeat. Expect him to listen when you teach, and you will see that your body language will help him to engage with you better too. https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-poodle-to-heel Finally, if there has ever been any form of aggression toward you or you aren't seeing progress or things get worse, or you are unsure how to train, I recommend hiring a professional trainer with experience with similar breeds and training needs, who comes well recommended by their previous clients and can help train in person. I would also desensitize him to wearing a basket muzzle ahead of time if there is aggression present, so training can be done carefully, and hire help to adapt methods and body language to ensure everyone is safe. Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden

Aug. 3, 2023

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Mimi
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havapoo
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Three Years
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My dog is pretty small, around 12 pounds, she’s extremely fearful of bigger dogs and somewhat of new things(sounds, objects, people). She’ll tuck in her tail and shake when uneasy. With other dogs she turns to nipping at other dogs, which is obviously not acceptable. She’ll growl and bare her teeth, when they come close to butt sniff she lunges and there’s an audible clicking of her teeth. She hasn’t actually bitten any other dogs, but it’s really close every time. She likes treats and learns tricks like spin easily, but once anything distracting or scary comes out she will not listen.

July 28, 2022

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Hello, I would see if there is a G.R.O.W.L class in your area you can attend with her. A G.R.O.W.L. class is a class dog dog reactive/aggressive dogs where all the dogs where basket muzzles for safety and are gradually desensitized to each other in a structured environment under the instruction of the class teacher. I would work on desensitizing Mimi to the appropriate size basket muzzle first, since that's best begun a couple of weeks ahead of time so pup doesn't mind wearing a muzzle by the time its needed. Check out this video for one example of a trainer starting the desensitizing process with a dog aggressive dog. Sometimes this process is done without treats, sometimes the treats add too much stimulation at first. As you will see in the video the training is often adjusted and the variables like distance, location, and level of excitement increased or decreased based on the dog and how they are responding when working with aggression and reactivity. As pup improves distance is very gradually decreased between pup and the other dog or decoy, different environments worked up to - starting with the environment pup does the best in first, level of excitement increased (like a fake dog standing perfectly still versus a calm real dog, then a dog who moves more but is still on the calm side, then a dog who is more vocal or bouncy, and an excited faster moving dog - like a young teenage dog...Working up to more excitement slowly, rather than starting with the really excited dog as a helper). A dog redirecting aggression toward whoever is closest, even if not normally aggressive toward you, other people or other household pets, is always a risk when pup gets really aroused around what triggers the aggression - a strange dog, so a basket muzzle can be a good safety tool to allow you to train safely, even though the muzzle itself will not train pup and improve the underlying behavior - the training practice is needed for that. Muzzle desensitizing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DqM2_vLcQ2Y Fitting and choosing a muzzle: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6XzwUmSHyIc If you can't find a G.R.O.W.L. class and end up hiring a trainer, make sure you choose a trainer who has access to lots of other well trained dogs, so the training can be practiced around a lot of different dogs, unless you know you can recruit a lot of different friends with trained dogs often for practice. Also make sure the trainer is very experienced with aggression and reactivity, understands desensitization and understands counter conditioning. You will want to practice this in your own neighborhood as well as other locations too, not just a training facility ideally. The training can be started at a training facility but you will want to transition to your own location later, if you don't start in your location. Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden

July 28, 2022


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