Because big dogs can be intimidating, some small dogs might be a little fearful of your big guy. Big dogs also don't always know their size. Big dogs will try to fit into small spaces thinking that is their size, and big dogs will try to play the same way small dogs play, not truly understanding the size difference between the two. This could also mean your big dog plays a little rougher and your little guy could become injured or even stepped on.
Training your big dog to get along with a small dog is imperative, especially if you have big and small dogs in your household. They should be able to get along. They should be friends. And hopefully, if you play your cards right, they should play together too.
Training your big dog to get along with your small dog will also include training your small dog to get along with your big dog. Some small dogs are definitely bigger than their bite and can stand on their own, but others are timid, shy, and fearful. This demeanor may encourage your big dog even more. Put these two dogs on the same level when you are training them both and work with them at the same time. Be sure to offer both a treat at the same time if possible. If you give one dog a treat, be sure to give the other dog a treat. This will teach the two dogs that they are both equal in the household.
You will need lots of tasty treats to train your dogs to play together and be nice to one another. You will also need patience and training time with a big dog and a small dog. If you don't own both big dogs and small dogs, but you still want them to get along, try to find a small dog that you can introduce your big guy to, so he knows that there are dogs of all sizes out in his world and he needs to know how to interact with them. You can do this by organizing play dates through your groomer or veterinarian, or you can take your dog to a dog park and see if anyone is interested in introducing their little guy to your big guy. Be sure to have treats for both dogs at all times.
The problem I am having with Bambi is her being aggressive towards a new dog. I do have another dog that she gets along fine with (he's the black dog). A couple times we had a "sleepover" with my friends dog and she was not having it at all. We tried separating them in different rooms so that they could sniff each other under the doors. When we eventually let them all out, she would want to sniff the new dog, but wouldn't let him sniff her so she would growl and try to bite him. My other dog got along fine with the new one, but she didn't. I want to try and fix this problem because I'm planning on rescuing a bigger dog, but I'm not sure if I can with her like this.
Hello Tessa, If you can find a G.R.O.W.L. class in your area I think that she would really benefit from attending that class. The class is for reactive and aggressive dogs who all wear muzzle's during the class for safety and they are intensively socialized at a quicker pace. Her aggression sounds mild compared to some but the socialization in that type of safer environment would probably really benefit her. I also suggest practicing her heel (where you are leading the walk, she has to walk right next to you, and focus on you) with others who are doing the same. The structure of the walk and being in the following mindset while around the other dogs would be a good, calm way to socialize her probably. only walk her, have other owners handle their own dogs. She needs to work on tolerance but for her that probably needs to look like structure, following your lead, and generally getting used to being around a variety of dogs while everything is controlled (opposed to off-leash unstructured play like a dog park - which could make the problem worse). Check out the "Walking Together" method from the article that I have linked below: https://wagwalking.com/training/greet-other-dogs Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden
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I have a Pomeranian and my partner has a bullmastiff. They have met before but have been living seperately for the last 2+ years. They are now going to have to live together and we are concerned about the smaller dog becoming injured. We were keen to get some advise on how to go about this and will it be safe for them to be together. Also will they eventually be allowed to be left together ?
Hello Katie, Whether they can eventually be left alone together completely depends on the individual dogs and their relationship - many dogs with a significant size difference stay with each other safely because all they do is lie around, they get alone well, there is no aggression between them, and they aren't playing rough. Assuming that they have done well in the past during walks together and meetings (if they haven't gone on walks together start doing that to create a calm relationship between them), I suggest the following: First, crate train both dogs using the crate manners and Surprise methods from the article and video linked below. Feed both dogs in separate locked crates at meal times. Crate manners - for teaching impulse control and calmness: https://thegooddog.net/training-videos/free-how-to-training-videos/learn-to-train-the-good-dog-way-the-crate/ Surprise method - for introducing the crate at first: https://wagwalking.com/training/like-a-crate Second, teach both dogs the Out command (which means leave the area) and make whoever any dog causing issues leave the area as needed - including any dog guarding something, trying to play to rough, pestering the other dog while they are sleeping, ect... Out command: https://www.petful.com/behaviors/how-to-teach-a-dog-the-out-command/ Decide what your house rules are for both dogs and you be the one to enforce the rules instead of the dogs. No aggression, no pushiness, no stealing toys, no stealing food, no being possessive of people or things, or any other unwanted behavior - if one dog is causing a problem you be the one to enforce the rules so that the dogs are NOT working it out themselves. For example, if pup comes over to your other dog when he is trying to sleep, tell pup Out. If he obeys, praise and reward him. If he disobeys, stand in front of your other dog, blocking the pup from getting to him, and walk toward pup calmly but firmly until pup leaves the area and stops trying to go back to your other dog. If one dog growls at pup, make him leave the room while also disciplining the other dog if he was antagonizing him to deserve a growl. Be vigilant and take the pressure off of your dogs - you want them to learn to look to you when there is a problem, and for them to learn respect for each other because you have taught it to them. Teach both dogs the Place command and work up to having them both stay on their separate Place beds calmly for 1-2 hours. This is a great calming, self-control building, and tolerance exercise. It also helps get them both in a working, more respectful mindset while in the same room as each other. If them playing together too roughly becomes an issue Place is a good command to manage that while teaching calmness around other dogs to them. Place: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omg5DVPWIWo Finally, work on manners and building respect and trust for you and your partner, especially if any aggression, pushiness, or jealousy crops up with either dog. The following commands are good commands that can help accomplish that: Thresholds: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_-w28C2g68M Heel article - The turns method: https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-poodle-to-heel Working method and Consistency method: https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-doberman-to-listen-to-you A structured walk, where both dogs are focusing on you or your partner, instead of competing to be in front, is a great bonding exercise for dogs because it keeps their energy lower (no excess adrenaline from roughhousing), them focused on you instead of overly focused on the other dog, it helps relieve stress - decreasing stress hormones usually, and is generally pleasant for them without adding a lot of excitement and arousal to the fun. If you are really worried about a bite from your larger dog you can also get him used to wearing a basket muzzle and use that tool at first. Use his daily meal kibble to introduce it, rewarding him for sniffing it, touching it, putting his face into it, letting you clip it, then wearing it for longer. Ease into it gradually - making it fun for him, and use a basket muzzle so that you can pass treats through the muzzles' holes and he will still be able to open his mouth with that type on to eat the food. You can also dip a straw in peanut butter (NO Xylitol - it's toxic to dogs) and poke the peanut butter covered straw through the muzzle's holes as a reward for tolerating it. Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden
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Liberty does fine at a dog park, yet she doesn't know how to play. She looks at them like back off, I'm human. She does growl but has never bitten. She tries to get away instead. I'm getting a little puppy and it will be a small breed. Do you think I'm being stupid? I have four son's and she is great with them and was always gentle with our youngest. He is now 5.
Hi Kristi, It could go either way with a puppy. Dog parks are highly arousing and a lot of dogs there were not socialized while young and don't interact properly, so some dogs don't enjoy being there. I suggest testing out one on one interactions with other dogs to see if Liberty can simply peacefully co-exist around another dog without aggression or anxiety. Don't expect playfulness - she just needs to be able to simply hang out with the other dog without issues or stress. Test her around a few friends' dogs. Take the dogs on walks together where both dogs are heeling and focusing on you and not competing to be in front. Practice down stays at the house if the walk goes well. Finally, let the dogs simply hang out at the house with supervision. Keep both dogs from pestering the other one though. If she can calmly peacefully co-exist around other dogs without aggression or anxiety that is a good sign. Next, if she does well around friends' dogs test her around a puppy. Don't let the puppy pester her but see if she seems aggressive or anxious around the puppy even when he isn't directly bothering her. Be careful to take measures to protect pup in case she reacts poorly. A loose leash or back tie leash are good ideas, but your body language should be calm and relaxed so don't tense up on the leash. A back tie may help you be less tense or manage the puppy better. If she does well with all of the "hang out" interactions that is a good sign. If you do get a puppy at that point, expect to supervise them together and with a LOT of boundaries and structure. You will want to encourage calmness and focus on you in both dogs. You will want to keep pup from pestering Liberty, crate train pup and use an exercise pen for pup for times when you can't directly supervise to train dogs to be calm around each other - liberty may never play with the puppy and that is fine as long as she is kind and respectful toward pup, and you teach pup to be the same way back. Don't let them make or enforce rules for each other or "work things out on their own" - that can lead to fights. Create your house rules for dogs, enforce it for both dogs so both dogs don't have to be pushy to get what they need (like space while eating or sleeping). You want both dogs following you so that leadership isn't in question. On the flip side, enroll pup in a high quality puppy kindergarten class that has time for off leash play to help with her socialization. Don't expect Liberty to teach her what she needs to know as a dog. Take her around other puppies (puppies play differently with dogs, so no dog parks while young, but lots of puppy play groups). Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden
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We just got Woody, a 30 lb 3 month old lab mix. He loves exploring the world with his mouth and is very clumsy as he doesn’t know his size yet. We also have an older 15 lb dachshund. When Woods sees Dexter, he paws and bites him as he would with dogs his size. How can we correct this behavior?
Hello Christian, I suggest teaching an "Out" command, a Leave It command, crate training him, and using an Exercise pen. Work on the Out command while you can supervise to teach him boundaries around the older dog. When you cannot supervise, attach him to yourself with a leash or confine him in a sturdy exercise pen with a food stuffed chew toy. You can make the exercise pen more sturdy by putting it in a corner and anchoring it to something stable. When you leave the house, confine him in a crate. I also suggest signing up for a puppy kindergarten class that has time for off leash to help him learn to control the pressure of his mouth by playing with other puppies and being given feedback - the play in the class should be monitored and puppies given breaks and calmed back down if a puppy starts to bully or feel overwhelmed. Out command: https://www.petful.com/behaviors/how-to-teach-a-dog-the-out-command/ Leave It method: https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-shih-tzu-puppy-to-not-bite Introducing a crate: https://wagwalking.com/training/like-a-crate Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden
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We've had our female Chihuahua for about 6 years. Recently, we brought a rescue male Boxer (Gryff) into the house. They've already tussled twice and the chihuahua got injured. She's the alpha, or thinks she it, but she gets in his face and growls and it makes him mad, or so it seems. The boxer is the most loving dog a person could have, but their interaction is causing us concern for the smaller dog. Our question is, will they ever be able to grow comfortable together or do we have a larger issue on our hands? Thanks!
Hello Ron, Without intervention they will likely not work it on their own. The more fights they have the worse it could get honestly. Both dogs need respect for you increased, clear boundaries and rules in the house, and to have the humans in the house enforce the rules for them so that neither dog is allowed to decide or enforce rules for another dog. First, work on building each dog's respect for you. I suggest teaching the following commands, especially Heel and Place. Also, if you chihuahua seems to be the instigator have her or both dogs work for everything they get for a while. For example, have her sit before you pet her, Down before you feed her, Watch Me before you let her outside, Wait before you throw a toy, ect...Make her work for what she gets in life. This is a non-confrontational way to gradually help build respect. Place: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omg5DVPWIWo Heel article - The turns method: https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-poodle-to-heel Heel Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OTiKVc4ZZWo Working Method: https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-doberman-to-listen-to-you Crate manners: https://thegooddog.net/training-videos/free-how-to-training-videos/learn-to-train-the-good-dog-way-the-crate/ Thresholds: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_-w28C2g68M Create rules for the dogs and enforce them for each dog. For example: 1. No bothering another dog when they want to be left alone. 2. No trying to steel another dogs food or hovering around while they eat. 3. No guarding objects or people. 4. No blocking another dog from getting to a certain area or from going through a door way. 5. No being pushy with people or other dogs. 6. No stealing another dogs toy they have. Decide what your rules are and when one dog breaks them intervene. For example, if one dog takes another dog's toy, take the toy back from the thief, return it to the dog who had it first, and make the thief leave the room. If one dog tries to guard you or the couch from another dog, make the growling dog get off the couch and leave the room right away. If one dog tries to steal another dog's food block the thief and firmly walk toward them until they leave the room - better yet feed both dogs in locked crates to prevent stress around mealtimes in general. When both dogs respect you, know the house rules, and know through your consistency that you will enforce the rules, it leaves less room for the dogs to try to control each other and get into fights. Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden
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Hi! I recently adopted Duke and the shelter did tell me about his past aggressive behavior toward other people and dogs. When he was at home with us he’s generally just calm and a happy dog which can get a bit hyper, typical Aussie. He’s big but he also seems to think like he’s a lap dog because he’s very clingy to me. He enjoys being petted while sitting next to me. He doesn’t bark and seems to tolerate other people when I take him out on walks. There was that one incident though when he saw a small dog being walked by its owner barking at him and he got too excited, he got out of his collar/leash and attacked the other dog. I think it’s more like wanting to play with another dog than being aggressive. But since he’s about 60lbs and the other dog is a miniature schnauzer, it almost seemed like he attacked the other dog and the dog was shaking in fear. Now I kinda get anxious about walking him and him seeing another dog. He only seems to act this way towards a small dog barking at him. I feel like he’s just misunderstood before and plus him being currently on heartworm treatment and having his activity level very restricted doesn’t help with his socialization, possibly contributing to behavioral problems. What can I do to help him socialize with other dogs without compromising his health? How can I avoid another attack on other dogs in the future?
Hello Janna, To prevent him from getting away again I suggest either using a padded front clip harness to walk him or a prong collar with a caribeener between the prong collar and a normal buckle collar for added safety. Check out the video below for details on how to connect the collars. The prong collar will discourage fighting the leash to get away and stop the escape attempts that way, and the front clip harness simply makes it so that he can't slip a collar, but you will have to hold on tight to the leash and work on his behavior around other dogs still. About Prong collars: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3iczULPcdE Fitting and carabinering the prong collar and buckle collar https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23zEy-e6Khg Walking with the prong collar: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nVvy6fztL2Q&t=6s He needs to be interrupted with a small correction as soon as he starts scanning looking for other dogs or getting too worked up - if you wait until he explodes it will be hard to get through to him. When he remains calm or calms back down, praise him softly, and be sure to give him something else to do, like heeling with lots of turns and changes in pace to keep his focus on you around other dogs - to teach him to ignore them. Heel article - The turns method: https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-poodle-to-heel For socialization, work on calm obedience commands like Place and Down Stay and have people come over to your house and toss treats to him for staying calmly. You can also practice Heel, Down, Sit and Place while other dogs are walking by, and reward him for staying calm, obeying, and focusing on you. The main goal with his past should be to teach him to be self-controlled, calm, and relaxed around other dogs, so he doesn't necessarily need to be roughhousing or playing with them for socialization now - he could even have issues with that if there is a history of aggression. Once he is past heartworm treatment, then going on structured walks and hikes with other dogs while heeling would be great for him. It gives him companionship but encourages calmness, purposeful activity, and a pleasant association with other dogs because the hiking and walking is fun. Joining a Canine Good Citizen class, Intermediate Obedience class (basic obedience if he doesn't know commands yet), or some type of structured, calm class where he works on focusing around other dogs would also help with socialization when he is feeling better. For now work on calm obedience commands in the presence of other dogs so that he simply associates the dogs with calmness, focus on you, and something pleasant - treats for obeying. Have people over and practice calm obedience too, with the new people tossing treats to him for his polite behavior. Watch him carefully around new people at first though to make sure he does not have issues with possessiveness, fear-aggression, or any other type of aggression. Someone should always be aware of the potential for aggression or fear with a new dog, especially one that may have a history of some type of issue. Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden
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Hi! I just got Buzz and introduced him to my 2 dogs (female chihuahua) and (male german shepard). At first everyone got along but the g.s. is only 4 months old and growing fast. He doesn’t realize his size and is a little rough on buzz. (i always keep an eye on them and usually separate them during the day). this has led to whenever i allow my g.s. into the living room to join us, Buzz growls and barks excessively if my g.s. comes near. I’m constantly yelling at them. The g.s. has so much energy he can’t help but jump around a lot but even being up on the safety of the couch and away from him buzz won’t stop. when they are both on the ground buzz can protect himself and scares g.s. off who just wants to play. i don’t know where to start.
Hello Dema, It sounds partially like anxiety about GS, trying to control his behavior dominantly, and maybe being possessive of you. For Buzz's jealous behavior, pushiness, and reactivity, work on taking the pressure off of both dogs to be the one in charge (which Buzz is more so doing probably than puppy) and in control by mediating situations for them, work on commands that improve calmness and self-control, and make and enforce the rules so that the dogs are not working it out themselves - you are telling them how to react and behavior in a calm but firm way. Essentially, you want Buzz to learn to let you handle situations and work on his respect and trust of you, and teach puppy to listen better and learn how to be calmer. I suggest teaching both dogs Out (which means leave the area) and Place - which is similar to Stay but on a certain spot and they can sit, stand, or lie down but can't get off the spot. Practicing Place with both dogs in the same room on separate place beds can help facilitate calmness around each other and respect for you. Out is great for giving direction and giving a consequence of leaving the room when there is pushiness or mild resource guarding. Out command: https://www.petful.com/behaviors/how-to-teach-a-dog-the-out-command/ Place: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omg5DVPWIWo I also suggest crate training both dogs so that they can have a calm place to chew on a chew toy away from each other when things are tense, or one dog is pestering the other, or you are not home to supervise while they are still getting to know each other. it sounds like puppy is likely already crate trained, but if not Crate training is an important potty training and safety measure for a young pup also. An open crate while you are home can also serve as an additional Place to practice, and feeding both dogs in separate locked crates can prevent food resource guarding and remove stress around mealtimes! Crate Manners - great calmness and gentle respect building exercise : https://thegooddog.net/training-videos/free-how-to-training-videos/learn-to-train-the-good-dog-way-the-crate/ Surprise method - for introducing crate for first time: https://wagwalking.com/training/like-a-crate Decide what your house rules are for both dogs and you be the one to enforce the rules instead of the dogs. No aggression, no pushiness, no stealing toys, no stealing food, no being possessive of people or things, or any other unwanted behavior - if one dog is causing a problem, you be the one to enforce the rules so that the dogs are NOT working it out themselves. For example, if pup comes over to your other dog when he is trying to sleep, tell pup Out. If he obeys, praise and reward him. If he disobeys, stand in front of your other dog, blocking the pup from getting to him, and walk toward pup calmly but firmly until pup leaves the area and stops trying to go back to your other dog. If Buzz is standing next to you barking at pup, tell Buzz Out and enforce him leaving. When he is calmer and not being possessive of you, then send pup to place and invite Buzz over - no demanding of attention right now from either dog (which also means no climbing onto your lap, standing between you and puppy (guarding you), no nudging you, barking at you for attention, or other things that involve him being pushy or possessive of you. Make them wait or do a command first to work for your attention if pushiness is an issue, and make them leave if being pushy or aggressive. If Buzz growls at pup, make him leave the room while also carefully disciplining pup if pup antagonized him. Be vigilant and take the pressure off of your dogs - you want them to learn to look to you when there is a problem, and for them to learn respect for each other because you have taught it to them and not because they have used aggression. Teach puppy to leave Buzz alone unless told to "Go Play" - work on Place with chew toys, keeping tethered to yourself with a leash, Leave It command, and gentle discipline when he starts bugging him and doesn't obey Leave It or Out - this will take work, but stay consistent and calm as much as possible with both dogs. When pup first enters the room, give Buzz a treat without pup seeing so pup is associated with good things for Buzz - treats stop when pup leaves. When Buzz is being calm, tolerant, and friendly without acting possessive or pushy toward pup, you can also calmly give a treat. Keep the energy calm when interacting with the dogs. Don't feel sorry for either dog, but give clear boundaries instead. Don't expect them to be best friends right now - the goal is for them to calmly co-existence. When puppy matures and they have learned good manners around each other, they may decide to be friends as adults, but calmness, tolerance, and co-existence comes first. Teach Buzz the Quiet command: Quiet method: https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-shih-tzu-puppy-to-not-bark When Buzz barks, tell him one time to be "Quiet" in a calm but firm tone of voice, and deal with any possessiveness like guarding you on the couch by making him get off and leave the room. If the barking continues after one warning and making him leave, then use a Pet Convincer - which is a small canister of pressurized unscented air (DON'T use citronella). Spray a small quick puff of air at his side while saying "Ah Ah" calmly. Don't spray it in his face. The Pet Convincer should surprise him enough for him to calm back down and stop. Repeat whenever he barks. When he gets calm and stays calm, you can very calmly reward him for being more tolerant. Make sure puppy is not antagonizing him too though - give puppy something constructive to do like play in an exercise pen, stay on Place with chew toys, be tethered to you, or play by himself or with you away from Buzz. Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden
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So we recently got theo at a pound, he is older and fairly mellow and get along with most dogs when walking out an about. At home though we have two smaller dogs, one being a chihuahua mix. She is more aggressive with newer dogs but she gets along with our other small dog just ffine. She bites and theo and sometimes he doesnt react but other times he has pinned her in a corner or on the floor and one time he got her pretty good, but that day me and him were out in the sun so he may have been tired. He kind of eye balls the other two and sniffs them alot and it's been about 3 weeks since we have had him. I dont know if it will settle down or get worse. We have left them at home for hours before and no one was eaten but how do I know if they will for sure get along.
Hello Kendra, You need to hire a trainer to help you. It sounds like your Chihuahua is the main issue. Theo was very tolerant initially but is starting to fight back because your small dog is bullying him. If your Chihuahua keeps instigating fights Theos dislike for her will increase and he will have to increase the amount of aggression he uses toward her to get her to stop if she isn't backing off. To see improvement, your chihuahua's behavior issues need to be dealt with, and Theo taught to let you handle issues. It may be something that can be addressed well but it probably won't fix itself without working with the dogs and changing some things. When you are not home, they absolutely need to be kept separate. Not only does it put them at risk but it also gives your small dog a chance to bully Theo and the issue get worse and worse. When you are supervising, teach both dogs the Out command (which means leave the area) and make whoever is causing issues leave the area as needed. Out command: https://www.petful.com/behaviors/how-to-teach-a-dog-the-out-command/ Decide what your house rules are for both dogs and you be the one to enforce the rules instead of the dogs. No aggression, no pushiness, no stealing toys, no stealing food, no being possessive of people or things, or any other unwanted behavior - if one dog is causing a problem you be the one to enforce the rules so that the dogs are NOT working it out themselves. For example, if one dog comes over to your other dog while she is trying to sleep, tell pup "Out". If he obeys, praise and reward him. If he disobeys, stand in front of your dog who is trying to bother the other dog (if there is no aggression or fight yet), blocking the dog from getting to her, and walk toward pup calmly but firmly until pup leaves the area and stops trying to go back to your other dog. Don't do this during a fight or if that dog has shown aggression toward you - use this to enforce rules before things get tense. If your small dog growls at Theo, make her leave the room while also disciplining Theo if he was doing something he shouldn't, like trying to steal a toy. Be vigilant and take the pressure off of both dogs to manage each other. You want the dogs to learn to look to you when there is a problem, and both to learn respect each other because you have taught it to them and not because either dog resorted to aggression. Get professional help, use basket muzzles, or both if you are in danger of being bitten - always take precautions to avoid a bite - don't assume a dog won't bite because any dog can. I also suggest teaching both dogs Place and working up to both dogs being able to stay on Place for an hour at a time. Have them go to Place to practice peacefully being near each other, avoid issues, and generally to increase calmness and a respectful attitude. Place command: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omg5DVPWIWo The following is also a good exercise for increasing calmness and respect: https://thegooddog.net/training-videos/free-how-to-training-videos/learn-to-train-the-good-dog-way-the-crate/ Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden
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Tina(our little one) is being aggressive towards Abner. He scares her by his size and is getting a lot of attention. What should I do to make them get along?
Hello Jessie, First, work on teaching the dogs the following commands - more on why in a minute: Place: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omg5DVPWIWo Out command - which means leave the area - read the entire article: https://www.petful.com/behaviors/how-to-teach-a-dog-the-out-command/ Leave It method for teaching Leave It command: https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-shih-tzu-puppy-to-not-bite Crate manners: https://thegooddog.net/training-videos/free-how-to-training-videos/learn-to-train-the-good-dog-way-the-crate/ Thresholds: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_-w28C2g68M Heel article - The turns method: https://wagwalking.com/training/train-a-poodle-to-heel Heel Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OTiKVc4ZZWo Crate training - Surprise method combined with crate manners video linked above too: https://wagwalking.com/training/like-a-crate The dogs really need structure, especially Abner. You need to keep Abner from bullying your small dog - you be the one to handle any issues so the dogs don't. Decide what your house rules are for the dogs and you be the one to enforce the rules instead of the dogs. No aggression, no pushiness, no stealing toys, no stealing food, no being possessive of people or things, or any other unwanted behavior - if one dog is causing a problem, you be the one to enforce the rules so that the dogs are NOT working it out themselves. For example, if one dog comes over to your other dog while she is trying to sleep, tell the dog who came over "Out". If he obeys, praise and reward him. If he disobeys, stand in front of your sleeping dog, blocking the other dog from getting to him, and walk toward pup calmly but firmly until he leaves the area and stops trying to go back to the sleeping dog. The Out article linked above has a section on pushiness that details how to do this. If one of the dogs growls at the other dog, make that dog leave the room while also disciplining the other dog appropriately if they were antagonizing the other dog. Be vigilant and take the pressure off of your smaller dog to handle things herself - you want her to learn to look to you when there is a problem, and for Abner to learn to stop bullying because you have taught it to him and not because your small dog has resorted to aggression or hide. Have all dogs practice being on separate place beds in the same room and staying on them for 1-2 hours calmly, especially Abner, and when things are tense. You can give them a food-stuffed chew toy on the place bed and they can move around to get comfortable but they can't get off until given a release command - don't put the bed too close together with food present. They need to have time where they are simply just calmly coexisting, and Place is also a good way to teach them impulse control and calm respect for you and how to cope with the other dogs being around better. When Abner gets too excited or agitated around your smaller dog, give the dogs a break by either tethering him to yourself with a 6-8 foot leash or crating one or both dogs separately. Feed both in separate locked crates so there is not competition for food or anxiety from the other dog hovering nearby waiting. If Abner is hard to physically handle right now, keep a 4-6 foot drag leash on him while you are home to supervise the leash dragging, so that you can simply pick of the end of the leash and enforce his obedience if he ignores you, without drama. Check out VirChewLy leashes for a chewproof leash if he chews normal leashes. Your attitude in the household needs to be very calm and confident. You should mean what you say and enforce the rules but be very calm and not angry, anxious, or loud - I know that's a lot easier said than done! Your attitude helps set the tone for the dogs being calmer and feeling like you are taking care of things and leading. When the dogs are being calm around each other and relaxed, you can give them a treat but try not to let the other dog see you doing it so they don't rush over too. Simply place the treat between their paws while they are lying down, then walk away so they don't get super excited. If Abner shows any form of aggression toward you at any point get help with the training from a professional trainer who specializes in aggression, fear, reactivity, and behavior problems - an obedience class isn't the only thing needed - you want a trainer who will work one-on-one and is experienced with behavior problems like aggression in addition to obedience. Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden
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A couple months ago I adopted Siren from a shelter. She is the sweetest girl. She was already spayed when I adopted her. She is never aggressive towards dogs or people and does fantastic at the dog park. She loves to play with little dogs but she doesn’t seem to realize that’s shes bigger than they are. Sometimes if I tell her to “be gentle” she will walk away or calm down but other times she can get fixated on wanting to play with one dog and won’t listen to me. It could be a coincidence but it tends to happen more with intact males. She also does the same thing with cats. She wants to play with them like she would play with another big dog. How can I teach her to know the difference between dogs she can wrestle with and smaller dogs and cats that she needs to be gentle with?
Hello Carly, I suggest teaching the Out command - which means leave the area. Practice Out on a long leash places other than the dog park when she is really excited, until she can respond to the command even while excited, then phase the leash out in a fenced in area. Out command: https://www.petful.com/behaviors/how-to-teach-a-dog-the-out-command/ Dogs typically learn how to moderate their play with other dogs while playing with other puppies during the first few months of life, but you did not know her then. There is a chance you will not be able to fully teach her how to be self-aware and gentler on her own, but you can help her by working on Out during times of excitement and reminding her to be gentle as needed. I would not leave her unattended with small dogs and cats though - since she may need the extra guidance from you in order to remember. She could also be taught to avoid small dogs entirely. Best of luck training, Caitlin Crittenden
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