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What is Separation Anxiety?

When your horse becomes stressed when separated from other horses, it is called separation anxiety. When a horse experiences this, he may neigh or scream and be generally challenging to handle. Many horses have some degree of separation anxiety when separated from other horses. In mild cases it may be an annoyance to the horse’s owner, but not a significant problem. Some horses experience such separation anxiety that their actions may put them (or you) in danger. It is understandable that horses feel most comfortable when in their herd; for horses, there is safety in numbers.

A horse who becomes stressed or nervous when separated from another horse or horses, demonstrating his anxiety through one or more behaviors is experiencing separation anxiety.

Symptoms of Separation Anxiety in Horses

Should your horse experience separation anxiety, you may notice the following behaviors when he is either leaving other horses or is the one being left (or both):

  • Calling
  • Pacing
  • Running
  • Bucking
  • Pawing
  • Trembling
  • Sweating
  • Unwillingness to eat

In cases of significant separation anxiety, the behaviors of your horse could lead to his accidently hurting himself or someone else as he tries to be back with the other horses.


Some horses are fine being the one who leaves the herd, however experience stress when they are the one left behind. Others are stressed when having to leave the herd and there are also horses that demonstrate stress whether they are the one leaving or the one being left behind.

In some horses, separation anxiety may be dependent upon the situation. The behavior may be shown only on the trail or in the pasture or barn.

Causes of Separation Anxiety in Horses

Separation anxiety may occur in your horse when he is separated from one or more of the horses that he is with regularly. As horses are herd animals, he may feel uncomfortable being separated from the herd, leading to his distress. 

It is thought that some horses are genetically predisposed to experience separation anxiety, perhaps being more likely to develop strong attachments and then be upset by being separated. It is also a possibility, though there is no research to prove this, that the horse’s early experience may contribute to their being more likely to experience separation anxiety. Horses that were weaned too quickly, before they were ready to be on their own may also struggle when separated.

Diagnosis of Separation Anxiety in Horses

Often you can determine that your horse is struggling with separation anxiety without your veterinarian diagnosing the condition. It will be pretty clear to you that your horse or horses are struggling with being separated based on their reactions upon being apart from one another. 

Should you not be sure that your horse is experiencing separation anxiety and/or he appears to be losing weight, you can speak with your veterinarian about what you are observing in your horse. If your veterinarian has concerns that a physical issue is causing his behavior, he will conduct a full physical examination to rule out any possible issue to feel confident that your horse is experiencing separation anxiety.

Treatment of Separation Anxiety in Horses

How you work to assist your horse with separation anxiety will be individualized for his particular situation and reaction. To begin, you will want to try to separate him bit by bit. You can lead your horse around the pasture prior to leading him out of the pasture or take him away and bring him right back over and over. While undergoing these efforts, it will be a good idea to reinforce that being apart from his friends can be positive. Creating new and positive connections with being separated will be key when working to change his behavior.

Another big component, particularly when your horse experiences anxiety when you lead him away from his friends, is that you want to be someone that your horse wants to be with and that he trusts. Part of becoming someone your horse trusts is to not respond to his anxiety with anger or punishment. Showing your horse that your actions are predictable and that being with you can result in good outcomes, you can earn his trust and he may feel more comfortable being with you while separated from the others. 

The following will help to build a trusting relationship with your horse:

  • Work and spend time with your horse where he feels calm, which will likely be close to the herd
  • Work with him on coming into a calm posture by his poll being level with or below his withers; you can apply gentle downward pressure to rock his head down - do this without pulling on the rope
  • Encourage him to respect your space through bending around you and not pushing into you; make sure to move if you feel you are in any danger
  • Understand that he may feel the need to move when feeling stressed; take control of where he goes, leading him or walking him in a circle
  • Increase the distance from the herd gradually; should you see signs of stress, try the things mentioned above to help calm him down
  • If your horse is unable to calm down, then take him back to where he feels comfortable

Your veterinarian can recommend an equine behavior specialist who will be able to assess the demeanor of your horse when anxious and can work with you in helping your horse to feel secure. The specialist can offer suggestions on reinforcement practises that will benefit your efforts.

Recovery of Separation Anxiety in Horses

Should you have your horse from a young age, it is a good idea to separate him on occasion from pasture mates so that they can become accustomed to the other horses coming and going on a regular basis. Should the young horse seem stressed when separation occurs, you can gradually increase the distances of separation so that he may adjust.

Separation Anxiety Questions and Advice from Veterinary Professionals

australian stock horse X riding pony
14 Years
Moderate condition
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Not Eating

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we have a 2 acre paddock in which we have 2 horses permanently living in. There is a grey pony and a brown horse. the horse is mine but we are agitating the pony for my instructor as she doesn’t have enough room for her at her place. i go to have lessons at my instructor’s property every week but our car can only tow one horse at a time so we just take my horse with us each week. the pony gets very distressed when she is gone, and will pace up and down the side of the paddock that is closest to where we keep the float, calling out and destroying any grass in the top side of the paddock. we are usually gone for the whole day and sometimes, when we got to shows that are far away we may be done for up to 5 days at a time. we only live on a 5 acre property so the neighbours are quite close and we have received many complaints from neighbours about the noise that can go deep into the night sometimes. it seems like we have tried everything - giving her a ton of hay to eat while we are gone, but she just won’t eat it, we do not have stables as of now but we have tried sectioning off a small part of the paddock with electric tape but she manages to either push through it or jump over it. she calms down as soon as the other horse returns. also when we do ending up at the same show she will constantly want to be with my horse and will rear up or buck down or be silly whilst in the show ring. please help

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CP Picabo Street
18 Years
Serious condition
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Arab mare 18 y.o. Have had her 10 yrs. small 14.1 (been low man on the totem pole before I got her). 5 horses at barn. she is in her own 1/2 acre pasture. Separation anxiety only when others (esp 2 mares that owner takes out together) go out...she paces pretty much as long as they are gone. She is fine going out on her own. She also has a hard time loading when we have been horse-camping...afraid someone is still there. She's fine on the trail, and doesn't get too upset if a few go on ahead..and she and I have a good relationship..she is very calm w/me around..What to do with the pacing at the barn? I can't be there when other person takes her 2 out to give her leadership. Hint: she came out of Cal Poly Kellogg program; as she is small (maybe 750-775), I'm guessing she may have been weaned early. Any Help/advice? [email protected]

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8 Years
Serious condition
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Not being able to be hard tied.
Throwing head in circles,
Swaying back and forth

I bought an 8 yr old gelding that had never been away from his mother and older sister. Now he's all by himself, no other horses around and he stands at the gate and continually rocks on his front legs back and forth. If he's in the stall he'll also throw his head in circles as he's rocking back and forth. The first time I took him trail riding with a friend and her horse, he pulled back and fought to break free while being tied up at the trailer because he couldn't see the other horse. He tried his hardest to bust out of his halter.

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15 Years
Serious condition
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extreme separation anxiety

I have a stall with a run out that my anxious horse is left in when I take out the other one. I have put feed bags in stall and tried the "not being gone long" etc. The horse left behind will eat the feed but also kicks holes in the stall walls! She is dripping wet with sweat when I return also. This started from the first day that horse was brought here. It did not develop over a long period of time, so I do not think taking her out for a couple weeks would help much. She may just return to the same behavior. Any suggestions? I am afraid to leave her in pasture alone for fear she may jump or bolt through the fence when I take the other horse out. She doesn't have a problem when I ride her leaving he gelding behind it is just when she is left behind.

Dr. Callum Turner, DVM
Dr. Callum Turner, DVM
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In cases of severe anxiety like this, I cannot give you any practical advice over email or a post; I would recommend that you consult with an experienced horse trainer who may have experience in cases like this. I wouldn’t want to suggest anything in case any harm came to Lacey. Regards Dr Callum Turner DVM

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